Online Flirting

• Have fun!  Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining.  Make her/him eager to talk to you again.  Flirting is playful and should be enjoyable for both sides. 

• Show your confidence. Successful flirts should always maintain a positive outlook on life.  You need to transmit a “feel good” factor that keeps the person interested and coming back for more.  An optimistic attitude will attract the person to you can create a sense of bond.

• Compliments are a powerful tool at any flirters disposal. Complimenting can boost the other person confidence can create a long lasting effect on the other person. Compliment her/him and do it often and sincerely. She/he will want to spend more time with you if you show manners such as if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”. Compliments can be a vital part in growing online dating relationships.

• Pay attention to what the other person is saying and if possible ask appropriate questions to show the person that you are listening. Try to get him/her to open up and talk about themselves, trust is a vital part of any relationship. Make him/her feel like you are interesting and that you care about the other person. 

• Know how to ask a woman or a man out the right way. Asking a special person out on a date can be a terrifying ordeal for some people. Try to rehearse and prepare your lines before asking a person out on a date.

• Never be rude.  Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on, never harass a person.  If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach. 

• Send an email after you chat.  This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting. It will show that you are still thinking about the person and that you are going the extra mile. Other popular online dating activities such as photo sharing can also boost your online dating relationship.